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What does make him a jerk in either circumstance is if he strings you along without ever making his true intentions (or non-intentions) clear.
The trick in handling this situation is twofold then: (1) Don’t be too judgmental in either situation (unless he willingly deceives you and pretends he wants something else).
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Some of it just comes down to compatibility issues.
It’s like being on a perpetual first date that’s going really well but the guy never goes in for the kiss, (even though he would totally score if he did! You can tell he loves being around you and hanging out, hell, he may even hug you now and then like a boyfriend, but he never initiates anything more physical. What’s more likely is that he loves being around you, and probably does even love your personality to some degree, but he has no sexual attraction. A lot of guys wish they felt sexual attraction for women they were great buddies with, because that would be the ideal scenario!
Imagine the following simple formula for attraction: Real Attraction = Sexual Chemistry Connection Respect The guy can have all the Connection and Respect in the world for you, but without Sexual Chemistry, he’s not going to be able to feel true attraction for you. But neither he, nor you, nor anyone else can force sexual chemistry if he doesn’t feel it.
If he’s really a friend, at this point, he’ll understand.
Or if that seems way too dramatic, just stop putting yourself in any one-on-one scenarios with him altogether. no sitting at home together watching movies, no more ‘buddy-dates’ where you both go for dinner together and hang out all night.